I wish I would have done that…I wish I would have tried that..I wish I would have known how to dance..I wish I have had a girlfriend in the college..so many people actually most of the people when cross 50s..start talking like that…why does it happen.. as we enter into later part of the life we start taking account of life and start calculating about what have we done and what not and then we also realize that we have not been able to do many things which we wanted to do..that time we feel it is too late and we regret not doing so and we feel we did not live a part of the life. Life is not about the regrets life is about living to the fullest…you want to say something go ahead and say it…yesterday I met a man in 50s and said I liked a girl in college and I could never tell her that I liked her and I still regret as I feel she also liked me silently…we hide our emotions..not only love we hide anger, we hide we care…when we start growing up we are so much conditioned to restrict our freedom of expression and freedom of doing things..we are fed with inhibitions…you want to join dance..do that..you want to paint do that…you want to write do that…it may not be perfect but it would start taking shape..do not be afraid of people laughing at you….you cannot be perfect in one day…but one day you would be..I like clicking pictures and I keep clicking…my brother us to laugh at me 3 years back that you click funny pictures…I said it is fine…recently he saw the latest ones I had clicked and he said are you sure these are clicked by you!!! I cannot forget one funny thing, recently I had a client, he said he did not retaliate back and never raised his voice whenever someone was suppressing him and he never expressed his anger and it had frustrated him…I definitely do not vouch anger..but not feeling angry is different and suppressing emotions is different..if you want to say something..say it..if you want to do something do it..live your life ..there is no guarantee you would reach even 50s..whatever has to be done has to be done now…I do not want to meet God and say I wanted to do this thing also..if that is the case then what am i doing now? We are given this life with a free will so that we can do the things which we want not the things which others want…Life your life because you want to live and do so amny things and be happy about what you are doing or else you would always feel you have lived an incomplete life
