Few days back, one of my friends asked me what is the best moment of my life and I really had to wonder and I could not find any because I always feel that everything is good and exciting. I am excited when I have to go for a movie, when I have to go for my morning walk, when I am going out for dinner or when I am talking to a friend and everything generates equal amount of excitement in me. These all the things are exciting and I am excited when I see others also doing same. Today when my sister came back from Gym I was looking at her and smiling and she asked me what happened and I told her, from Monday I plan to resume Gym too and I am excited. When I am not going and I am dropping her, I feel equally excited, I love my Gym. The excitement about doing small-small things generates immense happiness. If it is not generating, it is not worth doing then. If you are not enjoying what you are doing, even if it is a very small chore, then why do you have to do it? At my home, I prepare breakfast for everyone in the morning and I am excited about that every previous night, though my sisters laugh at me when I ask every day what shall I prepare tomorrow but does not matter because I am excited about preparing a wonderful breakfast for everyone next day and me asking them is an expression of excitement.
Let’s take bigger moments when most of the people feel excited, when you want to buy a car, when you are going for the holiday, when you are getting married, when you are meeting your girlfriend, when you are joining a new job and few things like this and what happens after the moment is over, you stay excited for the car for one week, you stay excited for the holiday till the time you have reached there, you are not so excited even when you are on the spot, the moment is already over, the excitement of getting married is over after you are married and it becomes a monotonous life, same is with the job. However, when you feel excited, you are happy or we can say, when you are happy about something you feel excited while doing that or else you would have been dreading that moment. Now these big moments do not come daily, so the happiness which you could drive from them also would not come daily and you would not be excited about them daily…so in daily life, you would be deprived of that excitement and happiness ultimately losing the thrill of life and then we start dreading life itself as we have lost the excitement, we have lost the thrill of life.
Now, if you really want to be happy and want to enjoy life, you need to enjoy every moment of the life, you need to enjoy every smallest of the thing you do, once you do that, you will see that how excited you feel about everything you would do like going to office, doing the chores, doing your work, eating your food. Look forward to everything you are going to do so that you feel excited and happy about everything in life, so that you can always stay happy. If your happiness depends on circumstance or is conditional, you would never be happy as there would always be some circumstances, which would make you unhappy, however, if you are happy about life, if you are excited about life, if you have realized how beautiful life is, you will always be happy. The happiness is not in big things as they come occasionally, it is in small things as they come daily. You need enjoy every smallest thing you do to enjoy life. People who say life is beautiful are not the ones who have treaded the easy one, they are the ones, who have seen life closely and have been able to tread the difficult ones too.
