8 years back, it was 12 am in the midnight when I got to know that I was being promoted, it was my first promotion and I was super excited and who would not be…Though it was very late to call any one and disturb but I called up my family and told them about the promotion and I could not wait to share with friends next day. Whenever you achieve something, you want to share it with your loved ones and you want to feel that happiness and when others are happy for you, you feel further happy as it multiplies. 2 days back, my friend called up, her another friend in US got listed in Wall Street Journal and she was so proud of her and shared this with everyone and she felt like it was her success. Whatever we do in life, our ultimate aim is to be happy and to get joy and when you have someone to share with it multiplies. If you have no one to share with, you feel crunched inside and you crave to share and when you do not get that..you start feeling lonely. Why does a person start feeling lonely in life..he wants to share his good and bad with someone and when he does not get that, he gets lonely. However, most of the time more than circumstances we are responsible for same. Few days back, one gentleman came to me to seek professional help on same. He is attached to a girl but he distanced himself from her as he did not like her some decision. After that distance, when he had a moment which he wanted to share, she was not available. We are responsible for our lives and we blame life for not being fair with us. When you are treading on the path of success, do not distance away from the people whom you think you do not need now as you would need them most when you reach there or else you would find the whole journey has been a waste. You would get lonely and you would crave to be with them. When you earn, you want to spend and you need someone to be with when you want to spend..you cannot spend that alone…even if you start spending, you would get bored and alone…do not ignore people for money and success as you need them most..you would anyway get success but if you distance those then you fail yourself.
