We want lots of things in life. We want love, we want luxury, we want a career of our choice and the list would be very long. We decide what we all want and we try to put in efforts to get it or may just wish and do not put enough efforts. Now this is not the problem, if we will not wish, how would this Universe expand. The problem is,when we do not get what we had asked for. May be we could not tell the Universe clearly what we need or we could not put our efforts sincerely or whatever may be the reason. However, most of the times we get sad and depressed about what we could not have. But here you are forgetting you are being sad about something which you never had. You just created that in your thoughts and you created further thoughts around it and when that wish does not come true you feel that your world is crashing but just have a look around other than your thoughts, you have not lost anything. You are already blessed with same beautiful life where you have your family, friends, if you are working, same job and everything. We are already blessed with many things but instead of looking at them and being happy about them we have a tendency to look at what we do not have or what we could not have and we feel deprived instead of feeling blessed. Its our choice if we want to feel blessed with what we already have or feel deprived for what we could not have. We can be happy if we choose to or we can be sad if we feel so…. Anyway whats the point in feeling sad about something when it is not there…and if I have to pick up a situation I would pick a happy one because in that I am happy atleast.
