Let’s start from the small things. We meet people and we like few. When we like few, we like few things about them and that’s why we liked them and when we get to know those people we realize there are so many things which we do not like about them and we expect them to change however, they do not and the complains start piling up. Now have you changed over the time that other person would change. Sometimes, people tell me that over the time people do change, but look closely have they adjusted with the life or they have actually changed? They never, if you give a chance to a person to be himself or herself, you would find he would be same and that’s why we always attract same types of people and mostly do same types of mistakes too. We get wiser but still we remain same at the core. If you expect anyone to change over the time then you need to change your perception. You never change yourself, if you think you have, it is just the perception of yourself, if you will watch closely, you would realize the real you is same and that is why it is important to understand the real you because we keep living with an image of self. Once you start understanding the realself you will know that you are always same.
Once you start understanding yourself, you will connect with your real being. Once you connect with your real being you would know that you are much larger than what you had expected. If this Universe is eternal, you are eternal too. You were always there and would always be there. Your every part is made up of this Universe and everyone is made up of same. Everyone has a part of each other and that’s why even when you feel you will not be there, you will still be there. Its your soul which is travelling the journey. If your life is your journey, this life is the journey of the soul and if you go higher up..every soul belongs to this existence..there is no difference than between you and everyone else or this existence. Once you dissolve into oneness, you will realize, it never changes, just your thoughts changed.
