The child is born and everybody is celebrating…and it is must to celebrate as its the advent of a new life and it is always welcomed….he is free and himself..busy with his life and he does not care what others think of him and what others expect from him…and he celebrates life in its true sense..but the celebration ends when the child starts growing…on the name of education, love and values and expectations he is over loaded with negativity, he is told he is worthy only on certain conditions and everyone starts training the mind on negativity. The poor child grows and is ready to die also to prove his worth. He would fight to prove his worth and whole life he keeps fighting as he is taught to evaluate from others perspective. He keeps living a divided life. He is never given a chance to be himself because if he is given a chance to be himself, parents are afraid that he would not listen to them, government would be afraid that he would break the laws but if a person is not suppressed and is a free person he would always be happy, if he is not fed with negativity from where would the negativity come inside him and if there is no negativity inside him, how would he break the laws as a happy person only creates happiness. When someone is free, he is happy and he creates happy people. But when someone is suppressed, comparing himself with others, feels that he is not worthy of things around, he will go to any extent to prove that and in that he would harm also.
Everyone is born unique and holds a special person in God’s heart and deserves equal love. Everyone is worthy of love and happiness and it does not demand conditions. Following the conditions prove that you lack self belief. Someone comes and says you anything and you start shaking up and try to prove yourself, what does it mean, you do not believe in self and that is why you are trying to prove yourself, but if you believe in yourself, it would never matter what others say about you as you are sure of yourself. You do not have to prove yourself to anyone.
Let the person be free to choose himself. Guide him but dont force him. When he is free, he would becoem a river of happiness and that river would become a flow of happiness in everyone else’s life around him.
