Few days back one boy contacted me who was distressed in love. He had started liking a girl and she did not give a positive response to him. As soon as he started telling me his story, the first thing he told me was, she created problem in his mind and now she is not helping him in solving that and when i asked her, how she was responsible, her only fault was he liked her. So how can she be the root of the problem? The problem is with his own thoughts and we need to understand own thoughts and take responsibility. If we do not take responsibility of what we think, we cannot take the responsibility of what we do and the responsibility of life too. Your thoughts control your life and your actions. Most of the time we are unable to accept that we have any faults and we are the reason for those faults. To accept the responsibility of life we have to accept the responsibility of what we think and how we behave.
You need to understand own thoughts and not to let them be influenced by external thoughts. It is very difficult to find self amidst all the clutter and very easy to lose. However, the beauty of the life is in finding the self and retaining it. Stop reacting to things and then blaming, you said so that is why I am doing this, you instigated me, you influenced me and etc. Ultimately, it is you who is executing everything. Stop blaming bosses, parents, spouses and life. It is you who is responsible for your action, behavior, thoughts and life.
