Why did he do this to me? How are the things happening around me..why did he react the way he did..what wrong did I do to people to be irritated of me…have I hurt anyone…are people impressed with me…the list of the questions is endless which we ask ourselves and try to understand others. We try to understand the situation and people and fail and then we wonder. The thing is in all this we forget to understand the center of Universe and that is you. Now do not argue on this point that how you are the center of Universe. You are the center of own Universe and everyone is a small miniature of this Universe. Everyone is made up of same 5 elements and same consciousness flows through everyone. Everyone is binded by same emotions. If something is making you feel happy, it would make others also feel happy. Everyone is different yet same.
If you did something or said something which had hurt someone, it would hurt you also when said to you and by hurting others you are hurting yourself only in another way also as same consciousness flows through everyone. If you want to feel, how others are feeling, always think how did you feel in similar situation, you would be able to understand how others are feeling. If you want to understand the composition of this Universe, understand yours, contemplate on yourself, you are the miniature of this Universe and everything is inside you. More you go away from self and more you enter into realm of illusion. More you connect, more you come to closer to reality. Understand yourself, get to know yourself, you will be able to understand everything.
