Nothing is more blissful than being in love. With Gods great blessings people fall in love and it gives you the best time of your life to be in love. You feel so great to be in love as we are born to love and to be loved. We are born to spread love. The problem starts when we limit ourself to one person and we start raising our expectations and why do we have expectations because we could not fulfill those needs ourselves. But the big question is, if we could not fulfil our needs how can we expect others to do that? They do not know us more than we know ourselves. They do not live with you like you live with yourself, so how can they know actually what do you need.
You cannot love anyone, until you have that in surplus and how can you give if you do not have, so all you would do is just asking for it. If you keep asking, the other person would get fed up of you and would leave you or would get suffocated himself, leaving you further deserted. You need to be unconditional with yourself and after that you will not have any need which needs to be fulfilled. When your needs are met, you will have everything in surplus and you would be ready to love people. IN your surplus condition, you would give love which will be fuller and would have no insecurities which will keep your loved ones with you in a true bond of love. You cannot go and say to someone I love you until you are ready to give love as you do not have that. You just need it. So better get yourself complete first and then love people. When you do that, you would truly be able to love everyone around you and everyone will be binded to you just by love, not because of any scrupulous intention.
