Can a person in love say I love you because……Love can have only one reason…love itself and if there is any other reason it is not love, be it any relation, father and son, mother and daughter..husband and wife, guru and disciple or any relation….if you are doing anything by saying like I am doing this because you are my father, that is not pure love, it is mixed with the responsibilities and vales. I am not saying this is wrong, this is definitely not wrong but my point is it is not love. But everything which is done with just one reason because I love you does not need any other reason. Love itself gives you every reason…I love you because you are my father is not a reason. Once I had a chance to overhear a couple talking, I know it is not a good thing but I could not avoid it, as they were sitting next to me and pretty loud. The boy asked the girl why do you love me and she said because you are a good human being, I know you will take care of me etc..etc…and when she asked back, he said I do not know, I just love you….this is the difference between love and a check list. Whenever you are in a relationship, always check, if you are with your loved ones because you love them or because of reasons, it could be any like financial security, fear of losing, fear of being alone or anything. If its fear of being alone, love itself will give you strength, love fulfils your life in every aspect and does not leave any space for insecurities. Love does not need reasons, love itself becomes every reason to live. That is why a person who has experienced true feeling of love changes for ever. It makes a person a better human being. It changes him forever. This is the power of love. A person in love would always want love to flourish. However, if it is the reasons which are prevailing, the love will not persist, it would just be some frugal emotions….do not find reasons to love..just make love the reason for everything you do…
