Lets make an account of life. Write down all the reasons which give us happiness and the reasons which make us sad. The reasons which are making us sad definitely are smaller in number than the reasons which make us happy…still we stay unhappy because we like to be miserable. We do not like happy people…as they are free ..if someone is truly happy we say..he is crazy as we cannot understand that how can someone be truly happy always. Lets write down another list, we crib a lot about the trials in life, n how many hard things and tough days we have faced…I am sure when you would write down, we would realise that years of tough times are few and years of happiness are more..still we always crib about the times where we had to stretch ourselves a little more but do not we tell about those times so proudly that I had faced such hardships and I did not give up…so they become the reason for your happiness too….we have a habit of focusing on what we do not have and we definitely have more happiness and reasons but we do not focus on what we have, we focus on what we do not have, as we think we have no control over other things like if you do not have a rolls Royce so you have no control over that but we do have control over how to be sad or happy, so we start becoming unhappy as that’s the only thing which is under our control. Stop that! Be happy, focus on what you have, focus on what you have been able to do, focus on beauty of life, focus on what gifts it brought to you…focus on what all you can do..you would always be happy….love to all…
