He has that, I do not have that, he is so rich, I am so poor, he got the bigger share, he said this to me, he has a life better than me..etc..all the comparisons, and where does it lead to…somewhere leaving you with a feeling of lesser you..so you try to protect the created image of self and try to boost your ego…then you compare yourself with someone who you think is lesser than you…so in both ways, comparisons feed your ego…how do you stop that, its simple yet unachievable, simple because there is no rocket science in this, unachievable because you need to realise yourself at soul level for this. We all emerged from same light, so there is no difference between you and someone else, its the difference of perception only. If you are wearing new shoes, do you feel jealous of yourself, do your eyes feel bad after looking at new shoes..I guess no..then how can they feel bad when someone else is wearing new shoes? When there is no difference between you and him/her? Do you compare between your two hands or two shoes…everything is alike..then where is the comparison…
If you accept this simple truth of the Universe and creator, you will get rid of all the negativities and bring youself closer to light…what is enlightenment? It is when you start moving closer to light and the illusion starts lifting up…so if you accept your truth and the truth of this existence that is we all look different but are same and everything and every being has same consciousness, we become enlightened. So stop comparing, instead accept yourself and accept the creator…become one with the existence by accepting..dissolve your duality with the existence and you will be light yourself..