Whatever you are doing in this world, when you love someone when you give something to someone, when you do something for someone you love, you do not do it for that person, you do it because you like loving that person, the feeling which you get by loving someone makes you love that person, the feeling which you get by by doing something for someone, you do for that, even when you goto God, you go for the sake of self, you love God, not because he is God, but for the sake of self, if everything you are doing is for the sake of self, then why do you feel you have done anything for anyone..I have loved you so much…I did this for you, I did that for you…we all are selfish..that is different in what way we accomplish our selfishness. We love God, we love people we do things because we love self and we know it deep down and when we know it why are we unable to accept that. Why cannot we accept the fact that we are selfish. We all are, however, you shall not be mean where you use and manipulate others for your purpose. Where you hurt yourself for your personal benefits.
Now how can you make this feeling of self better for yourself instead of feeling bad about this that I am a selfish person, you can expand your definition of self. We all emerged from same light, everything and every being emerged from same light. From inside we are same and outside too..like leaves of a same tree…all the leaves are same, but for them they are different…so just understand that everyone is same..there is no difference between you and someone else…if you are able to accept this truth..you will never feel bad about feeling selfish…
