We think too much about others and what they would think of us. We want to look good to others or we dont want to look bad to others. We live our life as per others mostly and eventually we live a suffocated and incomplete life. Someone says something which we feel is not a truth for us, we get into a battle and start fighting a war to prove that if its true or not. We prove to the whole world and most of the time when I meet people, they have this connotation that I want to prove to the world that i am something. Why do you have to prove to anyone if you are right or wrong and hurt yourself? Why do you have to prove to anyone that you are something?
Just be right on your part, always play by the integrity of the moment and follow your values. Have your self belief so intact that it shall not be effected by what others say and think about you. It is effected by others when you lack self belief so you need others approval and you dont have that, you try to get that. A person of true self belief will never be shaken by others. He would stand tall in any circumstances. Why do you have to prove to the world that you are something? You do not have to, just do your work. Give your best. Everyone is born unique and everyone knows that still when you start look at yourself from others eyes you become someone else and lose your individuality and starting searching for self and thus try to prove you are something as you have lost yourself. Just be yourself and you will not have have to prove you are something because you are already everything. You are the Universe yourself, just realise it, just with your thoughts you are separating and becoming small. You are already big. Dont prove yourself to anyone, just realise yourself.
