I want that, I want this, why because my neighbour this, whether that is a materialistic thing or an ability . Any why do we want that, we have no answer. We do not like to be called as egotist, negative, jealous etc but we cannot get rid of that basic feeling. Same way everyone wants what others have and what do we want to give in return, we want that what we have, he shall not have. My house shall be unique. My dress shall be unique. If I am able to do certain thing in a unique way, no one shall be able to do that. Someone makes a nice dish in the kitchen and does not want to share the recipe, no one should be able to make things like me. No shall be able to think the way I think. We want everyone to appreciate what we do and we do not want anyone to know how we have done that, so that no one else should be able to reach to same level. Wow…amazing approach and a simple justification..we are humans. Just imagine what if you do not have this feeling, how do you get rid of that feeling..you need to stop identifying with everything, you need to stop identifying with self to reach to real self. We identify so much with the body, the beauty, the ability and what we have and when those things are no longer with us we suffer and this super identification paves path for ego, jealousy, pain and everything whatever we detest. You are no one here. Nothing belongs to you, even this body, everything is on loan to you. You spend so much on your body, but tell me do you spend on rental house? I guess the answer is no, same way, you are just living in this body temporarily. Everything is just shared, the moment you realize this and you become aware of it, the negativity appears. You are sharing, so everyone else has equal right to share. Just do not worry about who has what and who does what. Keep playing your role earnestly
