We feel we are incomplete and we need someone else to make us complete. Always heard that a man makes a woman complete and a woman makes a man complete. And the best example is picked up from Indian mythology where Shiva and Parvati are depicted in togetherness as Ardhnarishwar. However, there is another side of same story and if we look deeply we realize that. Everyone has both male and female side and it depends on us, which side we explore, that is why we are able to accept different roles if required. Everyone is a complete individual. You lack something only till the time you don’t realize your completeness. Once you realize, you will never feel alone. You would realize, it is always a pleasure to be with people but it is not necessity. When its a pleasure, you are one with everyone and you are giving but when you make it your necessity you will feel lonely and you will ask..if you keep asking people will go away from you making you further lonely. Why is it so, because like you everyone else needs and you are scaring them off, they themselves want someone to be with them and that completeness and someone is asking more from them, it will take away what they have thus they get scared. Once you realize your completeness, you become giving and you will attract everyone around you making them also complete. You will not crave as you need, infact others would crave to be with you. So realize your completeness, you are complete within yourself, start giving pleasure..life would be a pleasurable journey.