We all want so many things in life and we keep complaining life that it has been so unfair to us. We just want more and more. Few days back i met someone who was blessed with everything in life, a nice family who really loved him, a beautiful wife and two children. As we grow up we start rearing lots of resentment against our loved ones and we fill ourselves with lots of negativity. We want everyone to love us our way and when that does not happen, we feel the other person does not love us enough. However, instead of looking at what we want and what we want others to do for us,lets look at what we already have and what have we been doing. Have we thanked them for what they did for us? Have we been able to love them the way they had expected us if no then how can we expect them to do so. Have we looked at the things which we are already blessed with, most of the times the answer is no. Once I had client and he said so as per you I should start thanking God for everything I have around even if I am waking up and breathing and the answer is absolutely. You are blessed to be alive, you are here in this beautiful world and you have a family who is there with you in your thick and thin. They may not love you the way you want them but they are there by your side. If you will start focusing on what you have instead of what you did not have and others have, you will realise how blessed you are. Once one gentleman was complaining about not having shoes but when he saw a man without legs he realised he was so blessed. that is how life is. If you want to be happy look at what you already have.
