We have so many complaints from everything around us and every person around us. Why the government is not functioning properly, why my parents did not love me enough, why they gave bigger piece of pie to my brother, why my brother was given more freedom, why my friends have more money to spend, why someone else has is happier than I am and so on. The biggest feeling is I also deserve to be happy then why I am being devoid of happiness. Why are you asking this from anyone else, like they know you more than you do know yourself. You may feel jealous that others are happy and they did not have their share of life like you have, but believe me first thing is life is like this with everyone. It happens to everyone in different forms and everyone has own share of pains. Now your being happy does not depend on how much pain you have in life because every time you will have one or other pain. And if you feel more pain by looking at others then definitely you will always be unhappy and would have lots of pains as there are so many people around you and you have just stopped existing. You have forgotten in your life you are the one. If you do not exist in your life and rest everyone else exists, you will definitely have pain. If you really want to be happy, first be happy with yourself, for what you are and what you are not. Do not worry about what others have and what others are. Do not worry about if someone else is happy or not as that shall not be the criterion of your happiness. Just look inside and feel the joy of being, of being alive, of being in this moment, of being the existence and you will see, how happiness flows inside you. Once you are happy inside, everything would radiate back happiness to you.
