We keep asking and asking..we need lots of things in life which we think can make us happy…now why am I stressing on words like need and we think..because many things we ask for are not our needs they are just our demands..they become our need because we think we cannot be happy without them…we do not realise ultimately we need sleep to sleep and that can happen even on a mat, the bed cannot give you the sleep, we need food to eat and we cannot eat the plates..does not matter how costly the plates are and if eating in a particular plate or sleeping in a particular bed gives us more pleasure that is the food or need of the ego not your need…so first we have to understand the difference between our need and needs of the ego and we would realise that just by changing our thoughts we can be much happier.
Now we can ask for more and that equally is very beautiful because when we ask this Universe creates…however, we keep asking and everyone if keeps asking including Universe then how would you like it…so you are the creation of this Universe and if this Universe is ever giving even you need to learn to give before asking…now manya times you feel that you do not have anything to give but you need to realize that everyone is blessed a lot and can give a lot..you can give a smile to a stranger and make him smile..you can give love to old people or to special children…monetary giving is not the only giving…so learn to be a giver and then when you would ask for, you would know what you are asking for….