I want to help people and I want to keep everyone happy. Very nice intentions and very noble one. However, what do we do, in or noble intentions, we forget the most important person in or life and we remain deprived of love and acceptance. We keep looking up to others to verify ourselves. We want others approval to take care of us. We are not ready to take the responsibility of our actions and thoughts and we want to take the responsibility of others. We keep blaming life, circumstances and others for whatever is happening around us. We want to help others then first of all we shall be in a position that we are able to help ourselves and for that we need to take our 100% responsibility. And along with that we have to understand we cannot do anything at our own cost. You fill a pot with water and it can give back as much as water is there. After that if you try then you would get only mud. If you do something at your own cost then you would end up giving mud which would be like some frustration, some anger or may be some stress but it cannot be pure water even if your intentions are pure. So do not take the burden of satisfying the thirst of entire world, learn to do things whatever you can but nothing at your own cost. Your first responsibility is toward self and same is for everyone else too and everyone needs to accept this responsibility sooner or later. Sooner the better so that you can feel complete within yourself.
