The girl called me up and told me in detail how many problems she is having in her married life and how badly she is being treated by her husband…and in laws..I asked her why does she take all this shit and she told me its her own family who keeps emotionally manipulating her to be in this situation from the fear of society…then another one called up who is living with his wife in the same house but in different room for last 2 years and does not want to disturb the adjustment because how would his children react when they are so grown up. There are few things…you are into a situation because you have decided to be…second thing..when you marry a person or you decide to be in a relationship..treat the person as a part of you..whether its a girl or a boy and do not treat him/her as different..if you treat the person as a part of you..it is not for the other person it is for you….if the person who is living happily with you..will be able to give further happiness to you..it would become sharing of mutual happiness…second and the most important thing..do you place your ego for yourself…I guess no..we can see ourself truly naked…and we do not question own self..we accept ourself the way we are as we have to live with self…so accept the person as a part of you and be like you would treat yourself…there is no ego required..it is just about being together and sharing together…if you cannot create that space for someone…then do not get into a relationship….
