My husband, my work, my son, my family, my parents, we have so many relations we possess and the biggest attachment is to ego and this body. If this body deteriorates we do not like it, we do not like if we get gray hair or wrinkled skin, we do not like if someone says something to us, almost every war or fight is because someone wants to serve his/her ego. If something happens to someone in our relation we feel pain, if they do something which is beyond our expectation, we feel hurt…everything brings hurt and still we keep ignoring the simple fact that it is coming from the attachment. The son is causing tremendous pain to parents still they keep living with him as he is their son and they shall be with him and who will cremate them. Wonderful! Now someone says something and you are ready to step over everything, you want even to kill someone, you want to sabotage someone’s life because your ego is hurt somewhere…we know everything, that from where the pain is coming but the problem is we are not ready to accept the hard but simple facts of life. They are not as hard as they appear, they appear hard because we are not ready to accept them. If someone is causing so much pain, leave it, if some situation is causing the hurt change it, why do you have to keep getting stuck in same situation. This body, something happens and we do not like it, we keep doing so many things to make it look beautiful, have you thought when you say, my hand its like same thing as possessing some furniture, its like my table, my chair, why to worry about these mortal possessions so much. You are just living in this body, you are not your body and every thing attached to it is mortal, if something anyway is mortal, how long can you cling to it and keep getting hurt, better you prepared yourself now. Moreover, who are you to do anything, that you hurt yourself and expect the returns, havent we heard of oneness of God and his presence, if that is there, everything is done by him to have different experiences…just enjoy the way things are and all the sufferings would end….
