We all want to be loved and want to be at peace. Yesterday also one frined called up as he is going through turbulent time in his married life and said that the problem is, he cant find peace as he feels his wife does not love him enough now and that is why he is unable to sleep also. Now there are few things here, you cannot force anyone to love you and what you expect from outside or from someone else are actually your insecurities. Now you reflect what you have inside and you become same. If you do not have peace inside as life outside is a mere reflection of life inside, you will never have peace outside, if you do not love yourself enough, whatever love you will get from outside will never be sufficient for you and you would keep feeling that you are not loved enough. The insecurities about yourself woul keep spilling on the situations outside. Even if everything is peaceful outside, as your cup is full you would turn into a cynic and you would not be happy and you would find fault in anything and everything inside you. accept yourself the way you are and you would be able to accept everything around you and you will be at peace after that, does not matter how manything you feel you do not have because in real truth, you do not lack anything just that you have not explored your uniqueness and love yourself for what you are, do not evaluate yourself and you would be able to love everyone around you, after that whatever you would get from others would be an extra bonus. you are the source of everything, do not look for things outside.
