Few days back I was witness to a fight happening at home. Generally I try to stay away or do not even watch as I feel it takes away even my positive energy or the quotient of negative energy is so high in that area that it sucks up everyones positive energy but as it was at home, I did not have any escape. So when there is a fight, it doesnt have to be fist fight, it can be fight of morals, ego, hearts are thrashed and the pride is hurt, now when pride becomes ego, we dont even realise. Whenever I see such arguments, doesnt matter they are between professional colleagues or between two friends or at home, I see an amazing thing, whenever someone is at fault, to cover up his/her fault, he would dig the entire past of the person and would start speaking about the mistakes that person has done and that person who would have no escape would get quiet. Now tell me, even if someone has done 1 mistakes, does it negate the gravity of the mistake done by you, if you are unable to accept your mistake or fault, does it mean that you dont have that weakness, even if the other person is quietened, does it mean that you have proven yourself bigger, not accepting your fault just nourishes your ego on the sake of improvement, work, relation and many more things would be involve. Why do we have such big egos which have no base…it is so fragile that it needs to be nourished continuously and we keep doing that to keep it intact. Just see yourself, what is more important to you. Better accept and correct the things, accepting your fault wont make you a lesser human being, infact you would be a better one.
