All the time we keep serving our ego, we either protect it or we give it a boost, when we meet a friend, when we talk, when we work, when we give something to someone, when we do something, all the time we keep serving our ego, and we put everything on stake, we do not realise we keep killing a small part of the relationship for ego, at that time we think that we have been able to satisfy ourselves, we have been able to have an upper hand, especially when you want to finish last and keep saying bigger things every time, when you want to say sorry and unable to say so even when you know you must say, we are unable to say simple thanks also, all the time, we take things for granted and we keep serving our ego….but whenever you are in a situation, always think what is more important, ego or the relation, I know the way we are conditioned, we know ego is bad still we cant stop serving it, we are so much attached to the concept of self that we keep protecting it, since the time we are born, I have seen even 2 year old child doing it, I wonder from where does he get so much of ego and anger, and in protecting that illusionary self we keep hampering everything around, all the relations and thats how people start drifting from us every time, so always think, I know you would say ego is lesser than relation but we forget that at that time and we start protecting ego..so just be watchful and reach the realself so that you know whats taking over you and you can keep people above ego…
