So many times I hear people saying I did not do it intentionally, I did not mean to hurt you, and most of times we know deep down that whatever we are saying is going to hurt someone and what effect would it have, we want to have that effect but we cannot accept the responsibility also as our ego would be hurt so to satisfy our ego we say..I did not mean to….the biggest joke is, please do not feel bad I was just joking..ironically we want that person to feel bad….now the big question is why do we do that..its simple…since the time we are born, we keep filling up our ego and it needs a constant blow of air or else the balloon would deflate..so we fill it up by hurting others, can you imagine what you have been doing unconsciously, what kind of false pleasure you are taking by hurting someone else, I cannot call it happiness, because happiness is different, happiness is pure and is never dependent on something like this….if we call it happiness we have not understood happiness, happiness comes from with in, happiness comes from love….happiness spreads happiness but ego never spreads happiness, so dont fool yourself by saying that you felt happy….whenever we are doing something like this we always know deeply, so first accept to yourself that you have done so and then never do any such thing intentionally, this Universe is one and one body and it travels, when you hurt someone else, you hurt a part of you and if a part of you is hurt you cannot be happy, so if you want to be happy, be happy and spread that happiness around you..if other parts of you are unhappy, even you cannot be happy inside….atleast do not become a partner in same…
