One person met me and told me that I want to do this and what if it does not work out, but the big question is why do you want to do it, because you want to do it or because you want to have certain thing from it, one guy comes and says I love a girl what if she does not love me or what if she cheats upon me, now why do you want to love her because you love her or is it dependent on what if she does not love you back truly in that case anyway you do not love her you love yourself and for your need you need her…not fair to call it as love….one person is taking a bribe because he thinks that from this he should be able to ..whatever bad we do or whatever we suffer because we are attached to results as we feel what if things do not happen then the way we want them to, all the scheming and mani