So many times people come to me, who say they are hurt because of others. If someone says something to us we are hurt, if someone does not do anything as per us, we are hurt, and many small things like this. Now if we look at things little closely, why we are hurt, because we had certain expectations from people around us, we have certain perceptions, that my son should listen to me and express his regards for me, and when he does not do as we had thought, we are hurt but who is responsible for holding such thought and expecting, I guess the answer is you and if you are responsible for your thoughts, then you are responsible for your actions, if you are hurt. As you are responsible for your actions and emotions, you are responsible for everything whatever goes in your life. Like you do not have control over what others think and do and you are not responsible for that, same way others are not responsible. God gave us free will to live and decide the way we want to. But when we expect from others or we expect others to behave the way we want, we interfere in their free will. Moreover, if yo keep holding others responsible for what yo are doing or thinking, yo will never be able to take any action or correct it as you will keep giving power to others, but if you take the responsibility, you will have the power to change also. So take the power and understand your responsibility.
