We all go through various experiences in life and we keep making a judgement system as per that. We judge everyone and everything as per our past experiences. Whenever we meet someone and we find his behaviour similar to someone we had met in past, we label that person and the worse is even when we don’t find any similarity, still we label. A man lent money to another one who did not return after that for him no friend returns money. One girl was cheated by one man, after that for her all men are cheat. One person did a fraud once but he was repenting on same and was remorseful, he wanted to improve but no one believed in him and he never could as wherever he went he was label. If we keep judging as per the past experiences, we would keep losing our present as it would be influenced by past and past is dead and nothing can flourish with shadows.
I am not asking to go blindly, however, whatever you evaluate, evaluate as per present circumstances and what are the intentions now, no body needs to be psychic to know that, we all have internal system and we all are connected, we all can feel what other person intends but we snub that voice with our ego or going by our judgement system and later on we regret that yes I had thought so. Look at now, everything is in now, there is no past or future…whatever is happening, is happening now, if you keep following past, you are also a past as there is no past in now, it’s like carrying a corpse which breaths…life is very beautiful and its beauty is retained in present, past leaves need to be shed or else the tree becomes lifeless.
