We all are very insecure in life, we worry about future, we worry about we should not lose what we already have and we have an ego to protect, which wants to defend us, protect us and thats why we are never free, even if we meet someone, we hold back to protect ourselves and thats how we are unable to reach where we all want to reach, a stage of absolute freedom, we all crave for someone with whom we can be 100% ourselves, and even if God comes in front of us, our ego wont let us believe that its where we can give 100%. Till the time you keep holding back, you can never know what is the real feeling of giving nd until you give you dont get. If you want someone to become yours as this is what we want, whether its the one we love, a child, a friend or God, first you need to let go of yourself, let yourself flow, after that you dont even need to be physically there, your love would reach everywhere, and then when you have given your 100% , you would get 100% without any doubt, once your fears dissipate about them, their fears also would dissipate about you, it would be a free flow of love, so your ego is obstructing love nothing else, if you want free flow of love from both sides, you need to shed your ego. Often I am asked, mother is self less then why isnt the child, the mother also is doing as she feels its her child and she thinks eh would take care of her, she is also protecting herself here, so there is an ego….so shed away all ego if you want to experience true love.
