Since the time we are born we are conditioned in a way that we need others approval and we feel we have to follow what others say and we have to do what others ask. We need their approval and if we dont get the approval from everyone for the type of person we are and the work we do, we feel we are incomplete. We leaving a part of us behind and start becoming what we are not. The truth is everyone has own evaluation system and we can never have everyones approval and who says their evaluation system is perfect. Then we start hiding things because we know we are doing which will not be approved by the one whom we expect us to approve. If you are doing something it means you have already approved yourself and if you have done that, then do not do that. second thing if you ahve approved, then you do not have to justify yourself anywhere. After that what others say is insignificant. If others do not value you for who you are and what you do, it is their perception and you have no role in that. You do not value yourself and lose your golden heart because someone else did not value your pure golden heart. If someoen says its the time in the world where everyone else is corrupted and you can survive only with that, people dont value love and those stupid things, then do not be shaken with all these things. Keep yourself intact the way you are. If they dont value you, you do not stop valuing yourself or else you will always suffer from own fears and guilts.
