If we start talking to someone, we would have a long list of complaints from that person especially toward their own loved ones. Lets start, first complain starts from parents, they did not let us do that, they did that with us and I feel everyone has complains from them, then with spouse, own siblings, friends and the list keeps increasing. Often makes me wonder why does everyone have complain, atleast one person should not have any complain. Then I realised that when we dont take responsibility of pain in our life we hold others responsible and ofcourse we would be complaining about something which ah scaused pain. But look at it from this perspective, where does it matter what other said or did, whatever are your feelings, they are responsible for the pain caused to you , so in a way, you are responsible for pain. The moment you realise you start working upon own emotions and you stop complaining. Life is not about holding negativity or bad feelings, they are hurting you more than others. Every situation, every emotion, every pain, every person, comes and teaches you. Take your lesson and move ahaead. its in your hand, what kind of person you want to become.
