We have so many things which we want to do and when we dnt get desired results we feel sad and frustrated. Whenever we do something we are attached to results even before we start doing that. I want to come first thats why I want to study hard and when I dont come first i get sad. I want a good job, I want a promotion and thats why I am working hard. We are always taught tot hink of positive not negative. What would ahppen, if you dont get promotion or the results are not what you had expected. Nothing would change but if you have done your best to do the work, without expecting results, then definitely you would have inner happiness and satisfaction. The guilt comes when we think we could have done more and we did not do. It never about someone else, we share it with others to get approval for own beliefs which we already know.
Whenever we do something, we start with a target and we are so attached to the target taht if the result is not as per the target we get depressed, frustrated, low, sad etc. We all want things to happen our way and may be thats why everyone is going crazy over Law of attraction. People are trying to understand law of attraction to use energy to create world as per own choice. ia m definitely not against it, we must understand own powers. What I meant here to stress upon is that we all want things to happen our way. However, result is never in our hand, our efforts are. Whenever there is a result its a permutation and combination of many things. You are working hard to get promotion, but the promotion is in boss’s hand, he might look at manything not only your efforts. He might need altogether a different person as he has some purpose in mind. You might get depressed that i worked so hard but the truth is if you start getting low becuase you did not have control over it, whole life you can keep feeling low. But if you ahve given your best, anyway you have satisfaction that anyway I could not do more than this. But stay honest in giving your best. You can cheat whole world but not yourself. You know it if you have not done your best, and probably thats why you are guilty for yourself, now to take others approval, there is a huge hue and cry. So stay honest in giving your best, after that whatever happenes would anyway be best and if something doesnt happen, means it was never suppose to happen anyway. Honesty is the best key here, honesty to self and to whatever you are doing.
