We have lots of definitions, be this, be that, be like him and be like that, lots of comparisons, before even we start defining waht we are, we start defining what we shall be and what we shall not be and once we fall into the trap of should or should not, we can never be ourselves and we can never be unique. EVreyone is designed unique. Who can define how a flower should look like, what should be its fragrance, even when we control scientifically, how it would bloom, no one has control over that. Trying to control anyone is like stopping any flower from blooming and if you control the blossoming of a flower it would never blossom, infact it may come out with few fallen petals and it would lose its natural beauty. Same way every human is designed unique and when you define that person or yourself, you lose your beauty and you are unable to blossom completely. So dont try to control what you are, and dont try to control what others are, the beauty defines itself, the rose looks beautiful amongst thorns and feels delicate in comparison to cactus…so everything has own way of growing, if everywhere you just have roses and no cactuses, then how would you know what a rose feels like. The beauty of every human being is in being himself/herself. You dont have to become anything else, you are perfect and beautiful as you are, you become imperfect the moment you compare. The imperfection is in comparison not in creation. So just eb yourself, and you would not have to become anything else.
