Whenever we do something we always have a hidden intention, and we generally hide thos eintentions and we are not free enough then. We do something and we expect people to act as per us. We fight as we want them to act as per our beliefs. A husband has a belief that his wife should act like this and a father has a belief taht his son should act like this. We get hurt as we have those beliefs and we again build more beliefs and we start judging them. However, the truth is the person is real not your beliefs. You are judging and hurting REAl people on the basis of your false beliefs. Whenever we judge people, a part is lost, a part of us is lost. When we fight a part of relationship is lost especially if they are fought over ego. We keep losing real people on the basis of our false beliefs. Have you ever thought that actually you have no right to judge anyone. Now do not try to justify what you do and you should not do saying taht everyone does same and it is required in todays world. Dont forget we are creating this world and you are creating the world you are into. Whatever you create, is there around you. So no excuses. Second thing, just accept the person the way the person is, its too much pressure on you and others too, as no one wants to be judged and when you are judged you want to be good when you try that, you manipulate yourself and then you lose the real you. We lose the real beauty of the person. The person infront of you is more beautiful and real than your own beliefs.
