My friend called up and she was feeling bad about what her boss had said and she said I cant work with such people and I had to show her the positive side of working in the same office..more work..more opportunities and faster growth which gave her new strengtha nd after that she was positive about work also. Mostly in life we keep filling ourselves with what others could not do that too as per our expectations and we start piling up negative feelings. Once I asked a person who loves his wife a lot that how do you maintain that and he replied simply that we all have lots of short comings and I have decided to look at what positive she has and what all she is doing for me instead of what she could not do. Genrally the other person gets tired of doing enough from his side or may be best and still falls short of our expectations and we never feel good about what is being done. Life is about looking at whats there and whats being doen not about whats not there, then only we can realize our blessings. Start looking at what all is there and what all others are doing fro you..you will not feel shortage of love inside you…you start gathering negativity when you choose to look at shortcomings…Life is too short for such things…when you would start appreciating things and start loving everyone and everything.you will find you can keep loving and there is so much to appreciate and love that you dont even ahve time to think whats not there..it depends on youw hat you want to look at…I have decided to look at whats there…its a very beautiful life..full of love and happiness..just dont ignore it….
