We all do what we want to do and the things we want to do but we dont do because we are scared of what others would think make us feel depressed, frustrated, may anger us and all these emotions are negative. We all live in a society and the way we are brought up we are forced to think of ourselves from others perspective. When we are small we evaluate ourselves from parents perspective, then from friends, then from peers, then from spouse and then our own children. We never look at ourselves as a complete individual nd we always keep finding faults. All is fair enough if we remember who we are and what we want. People have a bad habit of judging, whether they have something to do with things or not. Once I was having dinner in a restaurant with some extended family people and when they did not find anyone else to be judged, they started judging the Waiter who was serving us and cursed also like the poor chap has really done something bad for them. Why do people judge others, because they are scared of being judged by others and they have to protect own ego. Now they have to fill up their shallow ego, so they try to put down others. However, if you spend same energy in evaluating yourself and how you can improve own life, your life would be far better. You do not have to judge, because when you judge, you undermine yourself..its never about good or bad..its always about improving from where you are to where you want to be…and what you do has nothing to do what others would think..they dont have a better job…so better you dont pay a heed to them and live a free life…
