We all aspire to have things which we feel we should have. Very rarely I find someone who is contented and feels complete with in. We have a tendency to look at what we do not have and ignore what we already have. Till this point everything is fine though we should always look at the brighter side and what we have then only we can know our capabilities or else we keep limiting ourselves. However, we have a big ego too which likes to keep ourselves above everything else and does not like accepting that others have same quality and we start judging others on the basis of what we lack. a fat person who is aspiring to lose weight keep judging people on the basis of their body structure as this is what he is conscious about. A person who is aspiring for fame, keep judging people who are more popular and I have seen them criticising such people, why? Just because he has a quality which you aspire for? So your little ego cant accept this and it tries to bring the other person down for other things. Well, let me tell you, first stop judging yourself, you are complete within yourself. The moment you will be able to accept yourself the way you are, you will be able to accept others also the way the are. You do not have any right to judge anyone. Just be an observer and dont give good or bad points, if you are giving good points today, some day you would give bad points too. Stop judging yourself as you do not lack, we all are designed differently and we all are designed to do different things. In the kitchen you do not buy all dishes, you need to buy spoon, bowls, burner and everything to make food. If its all dishes, you cant make food. You cannot judge a fish on the basis of how high it can fly. Thats is what you do when you compare. So accept yourself and you will be able to accept rest of the world too.
