I do not like comparisons. Sometimes people would come and tell me that you are really good but you must watch him/her and see him speak and learn more techniques of speaking. Even if I am suppose to improve, why I should copy someone else, let it come naturally…why can’t I just be me..everyone is unique and is given own set of gifts, why should I look at what’s there in others packet when I know I have enough in m packet and I would like to open my packet and explore what all it has…we ourselves say that grass is greener on the other side of the fence..it means that we always feel that the other person is better than us but the truth is even he thinks same..so believe in yourself and just be yourself, everyone is unique and you are unique too. same way, do not impose anything on others too..do not expect them to improve..let them learn..whatever the judgement you are giving is as per your experience, you do not know the real person..that’s his individuality…why do you want to kill someone’s individuality on the name of improvement…let them be free to become who they want to and who they are..don’t over load people with your expectations and judgements..its such a burden on someone’s head that what would m loved ones be thinking about me..help people in being lighter…make them free from your judgement..let everyone find own individuality and explore the real person. Make yourself free from others judgements and free others too.