Sometimes, people come to me when they lack self confidence and belief. They get too depressed with what others tell them. Its very easy to say that do not judge yourself from others perspective but difficult to implement because I know how one small comment can ruin your day. However, if you try to introspect, that this comment has affected so much and not the other comments because we were already sensitive about that comment. And if that comment is true, then instead of getting angry about that work upon that, if you cant change, accept that part of you as it is, accept yourself because you are already perfect they way you are. There is no weakness, its all a parameter to join. Everyone cannot be a speaker, everyone cannot be a painter and everyone cannot be a swimmer. Moreover, when you are sensitive about something, and you feel you have that weakness then to balance your ego, you are to find same weakness in others too. So that you can keep boosting your ego. A student weak in studies, would try to find same trait in others and if someone is intelligent he would try to find if there is any subject in which the other person is weak. If one point not satisfied then other. We try to cover up ourselves by pointing finger at others. So if you can do same, then others also are doing same. So stop judging yourself from others perspective, instead just accept yourself. You are unique and no one can be you.
