As soon as we are born we start filling up ourselves with the complaints from world and from our near and dear ones. We have complaints against our family, friends and everything around in this world. We have complaints against government, system, roads and everyone we come across. We are good at finding faults in everything. Why cant these beggars do some work? Why cant these rickshaw pullers give wayto the car? Why cant goverment be honest and do something for the society? Why cany my parents do this for me? Why cant my wife do this for me? Why cant my son listen to me? All day we live with these things. We can cover up ourselves under the camaflouge of being human for this but where does this lead us? What do we get out of this? We like playing victim and we start driving strength out of our complaint system. We feel we are strong when we put down others but have you thought over, are you so weak that you need to get strength by putting down someone else? If you look closely, these are the complaints we have from ourselves. I am angry at waitor because I feel I cant do anything about this. I feel angry at parents because I feel I cant do anything in this situation. I am angry at my son because I feel I no longer have control over things. yes control, we have all the complaints as we feel we cannot control. We want to control everything in this world. If you want world to improve, improve yourself and the first thing you need to do is to forgive yourself. Release the control to gain power over yourself. Forgive yourself for something which you have done and forgive yourself for something which you have not done. After that you will see everything is already perfect. There is no one who is trying to harm you or you need protection from. Once you forgive yourself, everyone else would be forgiven too.
