I get very disappointed when I see people trying to malign others by saying abd words or trying to humiliate others..I wonder what are they getting by doing that. I also wonder why people dont like if someone else is being appreciated. As soon as else they hear someone else being appreciated they try to put down that person. So much ego. Yesterday i met a lady and she was so much full of revenge for her estranged husband. She was like I would expose him in public and he would not be able to show his face to anyone and many more things like that. I asked her one thing, what would she get out of that. She did not have any answer. She was like I would be satisfied and what would be satisfied. She or her ego? When we are doing such things, we forget that we get maligned first. its like when you throw mud at someone else , your hands get dirty first. Once in a party one lady asked another lady what do you do and the second lady replied I am a house wife. In a very offending way the first one said oh what fun. I tried supporting her saying she supports her husband and because of her her husband is able to work in a worry less manner and then first one said, all wives do that and all corporate men have same lives. Then all those wives are supportive and it doesnt mean that this lady is not suuportive. When the first one left the table we all said, she is such a snob. Her own hands got dirty. We give what we have and she gave what she had. If you have dirt inside, you would give dirt to others and if you have flowers inside the garden in your heart, you will give the bunch of flowers to others. Look inside and see what you are breeding. IS it a garden or a barren land.