He was hurt. His wife had cheated on him. And she died in an accident. He got to know about her infidelity after her death. He had a 5-year-old child. First, he was wondering how he would manage the child. He was dealing with the grief and then he found out about her relationship with someone else too. He did not know, how he would handle that. He started beating his boy on every small drop of a hat. The child started staying away from him. and He started shouting at his parents too. They also almost stopped talking to him. In fact, everyone started staying away from him and people would talk to him only when it was absolutely necessary. He could not handle it.
His sister knew. if something was not done, he would lose everything and she did not want that. She knew he was hurt and that’s why he was hurting everyone. She was the only one who could feel that hurt under his anger. She started talking to him. She was patient and compassionate. She helped him in getting all the emotions out. Within one month, he started showing improvement as he was able to heal. He started being more loving towards his child as the child was also dealing with the loss of his mother and in a way father too. He started recovering and made progress. He started connecting with his friends too. He started healing and he stopped hurting.
Whenever you are hurt or you know someone else is hurt, do not hurt others. Focus on healing and focus on helping your loved ones to heal. We cannot heal when we hurt others, that way we would end up hurting ourselves more.
