She was married for 10 years and she was fighting her divorce case for 5 years. She had two children and they both were under depression. They did not know, what would be their future. She was firm on this thing that she had to get her husband punished because he destroyed her life and he also destroyed her children’s lives. Sometimes, families also play a role in instigating such thought process.
They married and it did not turn out well. They had to go through divorce but it did not mean he/she destroyed each other’s lives. And who was destroying more? She felt that she wasted 10 years of her life but now, she was wasting more. I asked her, what have you achieved in past five years and the answer was only agony. But at least in those 10 years, she got an opportunity to be a mother and raise two beautiful children, who are slipping into depression because of the court case and uncertainty. She asked what to do because she hadn’t worked in past five years. Then start again!
She joined her father’s business and took over the marketing department. Her father fixed her salary and incentives and she was able to make good sales. Then she opened her own marketing firm. After two years, the case still continued but she looked much happier, healthier and positive. Her children were happy too. She no longer cursed her husband.
It is very important to learn to let go and start over or else, we would be carrying the burden of past forever and our arms would hurt, our shoulders would hurt and we would reach to a point where we can no longer move forward!
