One lady called up. She was on the verge of divorce. The main reason was, one year back, she had a miscarriage. She went into depression after that. The husband and wife both fought over the same thing and blamed each other. And finally, they were splitting up. I asked her if she wanted to be with himc and she said yes, but she could not take those everyday fights. The reason was, they both were holding onto the set back. Finally, after a lot of dicussions, they moved on, forgave each other and were blessed with a baby boy after 1.5 year. The problem was, they were defining their relationship and her health with the setback, they had. Once they shifted their focus to how they could move on and create a life again, her health improved and she could conceive.
In another scenario, two brothers were doing business together. The elder one cheated the younger one and got everything done in his name. The younger one felt bad but worked hard. He started living with his friends in a slum and started working hard. His mom asked him to come back home, but he did not as he said that he did not want his life to get comfortable. After 6 years, he was richer than his brother, had a better position in his society and everyone sought his opinion. He shared that, for six years, no one bothered where he was except his mother. But as he worked hard and reached where he wanted to be, he is respected more. He shared that he had decided, he would not let his life be defined by what his brother had done to him. He would make sure, he was known for his hard work and how he handled his life after that.
