What did you get if you lost yourself. What did you lose if you have yourself.

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One person cheated his brother in business and became a big businessman. He was very proud of himself for being a big businessman. He always felt that he is the MD of a very big company and everyone is with him because of that. Everything was making him more and more proud. He has compromised everything for that position. He compromised his values, what he believed in and love of his family for that business. He gained that. After few years when he looked back, he realised he had lots of money but his children were not happy in their own lives. No one bothered about him and everyone just wanted more and more money from him. He felt he had lost everything in life. But what did he lose? He never had anything. He only had money and money never belongs to anyone. It just changes its hands. It keeps moving from one hand to other hand. If it would be in one hand, next day it would be in another hand and that is the purpose of money. It never stays with anyone. Even people around you also leave you. What stays with you is who you are and how you are living your life. He left everything behind. Its not one scenario, often to get something in life we tend to lose who we are, our values and happiness of that moment. A time comes when we stop relating with who we are and what we want to do in life. We just keep doing and we keep forgetting. We start evaluating ourselves with what we have not who we are. One person always thought whatever he is its because of his business. Whenever he incurred any loss, he went into clinical depression. Later on when he realised, all these things matter because he is there, if he will not be there, there would be no use of any of these things, then his business also started changing. He was losing himself because he was losing business. Even if you have got everything but not yourself, what is the use

In this life, most important is who you are, how you think, do you like yourself for who you are? When you were born you had nothing. So even you are left with nothing and you have yourself, then you can get everything again. There is nothing which cannot come to you if you desire. However, if you are not there, anything would be of no use. You can accumulate any wealth, you can have any friends, all these things are there till the time you are alive. If you are not alive, they are of no use. So be happy that everything is there because you are there. NEver lose hope just because you have lost something, in reality you never lose anything. The things which no longer serve you just leave you. Do not hold on to anything and never ever compromise yourself for something which you desire. It would come to you in its time. Just be who you are and be peaceful. One person started business 3 times from scratch and everytime he had a new zeal. i have done it earlier and I can do it again. His this thought process itself made him a successful businessman. Steve Jobs was kicked out of own company but he made another one soon and got back first one too. So things happen, just be happy if you have your best friend, that is you and then you can get everything. 
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