They were always fighting and then kids were fighting with them when kids grew up. The entire family loved each other, wanted to be with each other but they were just unable to be with each other. They wondered what did they have to do or else with the situation like this, where no one had mental peace, everyone wanted to walk out of that home multiple times a day.
They all had to learn three things, love, gratitude and forgiveness. They shared love but did not express it. They expressed their resentment more than their love. They had to be grateful for each other and what all is being done for them. We need to see, what all someone is doing for us. We need to make an effort to appreciate each other.
We all do mistakes and we all need to accept own mistakes and others mistakes. We all need to learn to forgive own mistakes and others mistakes. Instead what we do, when we do a mistake, we go into a guilt, we hold an ego and we try to defend it. When someone else does a mistake, we hold that against that person forever. And when something happens, we keep bringing it out. What does it do? It breaks the channel of communications in the future and also, it breaks the trust. It breaks the confidence that they can do mistakes and it also creates a distance. We feel we cannot be ourselves with them as we will be held with them forever. We need to let it go, simply let it go. We need to let it go for ourselves and others too.
Relationships are special and they make us or break us. We need to nurture them. We do everything for them. But we also need to do some internal work for them to be happy and loving and successful.
