I have done enough for my wife. I cannot do more. My answer was then do not do it. But then why did you do it? Why did you do anything for her? Because I loved her. So you loved her and that’s why did so much and now when you do not love her, it’s enough. So you do not love her. He said, no, I still love her. Then how can you not do things for her? Do our parents ever get tired of us even after we are doing so many things wrong as per them? They always love us and they want to do things for us. So, you can say, you do not have the same feelings for her. I really love her and I can never stop loving her. I guess I can never stop doing things for her. I had let my 13 years of issues cloud over my feelings for her. BUt she is the one who has been there always.
This month I have helped five people. And I am done for my charity quota. Fair enough. But then suddenly a small child appeared, and he asked for food. I asked him, would you help him or not, and he smiled. He bought a sandwich from a nearby small van and gave it to the child. We laughed and it was decided, we can never give enough, and we are blessed when we are able to give.
He was very famous, and he always felt very happy about that. And then he started feeling tired of that. Then he started helping others and this also gave him happiness. Then he married and he really loved his wife. They were very happy together, and he felt he can never be happy enough. He was always doing things to be happy. Then one day his wife asked him why he does so many things for everyone, and he shared that I feel happy. The moment I stop doing things for happiness, I start feeling sadness. So instead of doing things for sadness, I would rather do things for happiness.
Yes, we can never love enough, we can never give enough and we can never be happy enough. We need to keep doing things and we need to keep doing the right things. Life will keep turning out in a better way. The moment we stop doing things, someone else will start doing things for us and we may not like them. So we shall rather do things which give us happiness and love.
