Q:How can I move on in life, when someone had really wronged me.
Simply move on.
Q:How can I do thta?/
Yes, people will do wrong to you. People will hurt you and people who are closest to us can hurt us most. People with whom we have no emotional attachment, do not have power over us to hurt us. We need to sit and decide. What is more important. Holding the grudge or having the peace.
Parents are able to forgive almost everything their children do and the simple reason is, they focus on the love and the better future. If they start focusing on what’s being done then they will never be peaceful.
Q:What all shall we focus on?
You cannot drive a car if you keep looking into the rear mirror. You have to look ahead if you really want to move your car. In the life also, if you keep looking back, you will keep going back. You need to start looking ahead.
Second thing, you need to see what is more important.
Third thing, stop processing and reprocessing.
Fourth thing, stop desiring for a better past.
Fifth thing, stop asking for the punishment or bad to happen to that person as a Karma. You are no one to decide someone’s karma.
Q: What if someone keeps hurting and creating problems?
Move on and move on in every way. You have every right to maintain your peace. So if someone is hurting your peace again and again, move on. Do not keep expecting a moment of realization and do not get hurt again and again. Just move on! Let God and Let time handle everything. If you want to maintain a distance and you can then maintain the distance. Do not keep hurting yourself because someone else has done that to you.
You have every right to find your peace. Choose whatever gives you peace.
