WE can hear what others are thinking.
He came to talk about relationship issues. He woke up with fights and slept with fights. He was scared of entering home after work. He tried delaying coming back as much as he could. He was always scared of his wife. HE said that he never speaks anything in front of her but the fight always happens.
So I asked him, what does he think all day and he asked where does it matter? But still, you have to answer and the answer was, she is a B****, she is the worst wife, she was worse than any ghost and she shall die, she shall meet an accident, if it were easy, I would divorce her, she is always sitting on my head, God shall punish her, etc. And he thought that she did not know this but she knew. So many times she said that while fighting that he thinks she shall die or he would divorce her if he would get a chance. HE always wondered how.
Well, the thing is we all are energy beings and we all are connected. What we think and feel is reflected in our energy and the other person can feel that too. This energy works irrespective of time and space. So if he is thinking like this, the same energy is absorbed by his wife and she can feel what he was feeling. So he was not contributing to the fight practically but actually he was. His energy and thoughts were making equal contribution or may be more.
So what was the solution?
He could not do much initially to change his thoughts but he practiced blessing her all day. He kept saying God bless you to her in his mind and before going to bed, he started praying for her. She shall be happy and healthy. And he saw a difference in her in some days. She was more peaceful and when she was peaceful, she did not fight. Within three months, they were living very peacefully with each other. He wondered how he was a partner in all the fights.
So when you have a negative situation around you, do not let that enter into your mind. If you really want something to turn positive then you need to stay positive yourself. The conversation inside also shall be very positive. If you can’t do much, then start blessing or start using positive words of love and you will see everything resolving.
